Weekly Reflection - 10/23/24
St. Mary's Reflection: Nicole Elliott, Vestry Member
Fall always has been my favorite season. Having grown up and lived many years in both the New York and Boston areas, the start of Fall was unmistakable, marked by the beauty of changing foliage and that often quick shift to crisp air and “sweater weather.” I miss those clear indicators of the change in seasons. Looking back to my childhood, I can still feel the excitement of starting a new school year and the comfort of settling back into more of a routine after the respite of a long summer. Perhaps as many of us think of Spring, I associate Fall with new beginnings, anticipation of what is to come, and a sense of abundance, optimism, and hope. Given these associations, it feels fitting to me that Fall also is marked by the start of stewardship “season” in the Episcopal Church.
Recently during Sunday services, we heard Mark 10:17-31, where Jesus tells Mark to sell what he owns and give the money to the poor, and he will have eternal life. To be honest, this message, taken literally, stirs up some anxiety in me. Should we give away everything we have to increase our chances of entering the gates of Heaven (Mark already was doing a lot right before receiving this edict)? Thankfully, Father David spoke to this anxiety during his homily and took some of the edge off for me (and I suspect for others, as well). What I took away from Father David’s words was not to run home and sell everything. It was to examine my perspective regarding material possessions, wealth, and the “wants” versus “needs” in my life. How much of my sense of security comes from the material aspects of my life, versus my faith in God? Am I encumbered by money and the material, tethering myself to earth rather than freeing my spirit to follow Christ into eternal life?
What I also gained from Father David’s homily was an invitation to give generously, meaningfully, and joyfully to St. Mary’s. My family pledges annually to help sustain, and perhaps to help grow, the many facets of St. Mary’s that make it so special and from which we receive. These include our dedicated and talented clergy and staff, impactful ministries, inclusive fellowship opportunities, and our beautiful and historic buildings and grounds.
Although Fall may be stewardship “season” in the Church, when we are asked to make a financial pledge to the parish, stewardship really is year-round. After all, gratitude and grace are not seasonal. At St. Mary’s, we all have wonderful opportunities to give generously with time and talent; I have found giving in these ways to yield tremendous personal satisfaction and joy. Giving with treasure also brings those same feelings of satisfaction and joy, especially, I have found, when the pledge feels personally meaningful (cue lessons from Mark 10:17-31). We teach our children that giving to others is a gift to ourselves; in giving, we also receive. I feel the same is true when making a financial pledge to St. Mary’s and invite all to join me in giving and receiving abundantly this season, and throughout the year.
Nicole Elliott,
Vestry Member
