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Children and Youth
We are proud of our decades of strong children and youth programming and invite you and your family to join in the fun! If you’re visiting with us for the first time, please ask an usher to direct you to the children’s programs


Inspiring the Next Generation of Episcopalians
St. Mary’s offers a range of programs to teach, enrich, and inspire our children, the lifeblood of our church. We offer Christian Education, centered around our Sunday School, and including Confirmation class, a Children’s Choir, a Youth Choir, an Acolytes group, a post-Confirmation Youth Group, and college scholarships for young women.

Sunday School – Sunday school classes have begun for the 2019-20 school year. If you haven’t yet registered, please use forms below.  Hardcopies are available in the narthex.
Nursery and Sunday School Registration       Register for Confirmation

Nursery Care – Nursery Care is available for children up to three years old at the 9:00 and 11:00 a.m. school year services and 10:00 a.m. summer services. The Nursery is located on the first floor of Fowler Hall. Infants have a separate space in the nursery, away from the older toddlers. If the older toddlers are interested, basic arts and crafts projects with fun religious themes are available. For more information, contact our Nursery Care Coordinator, Jackie Schroeder, at jackie@smvsf.org.

Sunday School – Sunday School is offered during the school year at the 9:00 a.m. service to children ages three through sixth grade and the Youth Confirmation Class (grades seven and eight). The three to five year-olds leave after the Children’s Homily to attend pre-school on the first floor of Fowler Hall. After receiving communion, but before the sermon, the older children proceed to their Sunday School classes located in Pixley House and Fowler Hall. Classes run until 10:45 a.m. and parents are asked to pick their children up from their classrooms. For more information, contact our Director of Sunday School, Nancy Clark at (415) 387-7741 or nclark@sfds.net.

Children’s Homolists –  In this ministry, we take turns during the school year leading children in a very brief lesson and discussion during the 9:00 a.m. Sunday service, just after the Gospel is read. No prior experience needed; you just need to love and connect well with kids. We will arrange a training before you start, and you can take a turn a few times a year or more often if you like.
Contact: Meredith Peake – meredith.c.peake@gmail.com

Confirmation – Confirmation, as defined in The Book of Common Prayer is “a mature public affirmation of faith and commitment to the responsibilities of Baptism.” At Confirmation, an individual receives the laying on of hands by the bishop, thereby affirming their own faith and visibly connecting to the broader Body of Christ. Youth in grades seven and eight are invited to participate in Confirmation Class during our regular Sunday School time, where they are prepared for the rite of Confirmation celebrated at Grace Cathedral each June. For more information contact Phil Woodworth: pmwoodworth@hotmail.com


Confirmation Class for 2018

Youth Group/Post-Confirmation Teens – Click here for more information or to get involved with the youth group.

Chorister Program
St. Mary’s is an affiliate of the Royal School of Church Music, which offers a first-rate formational curriculum with singing at its foundation. We teach vocal technique in the context of group singing with special emphasis on music from our Anglican heritage; we teach children to break down social barriers and build community; we teach manners, conduct, and self-awareness with respect to the group surrounding; we teach discipline, focus, and critical thinking; and we teach singing for the pure enjoyment of music. What we offer these young children is the foundation for a life-long relationship with the Church, and indeed with God. Our Children’s and Youth Choir sing weekly for the 9:00 a.m. Eucharist throughout the scholastic year. Our Kindergarten Choir is a training ensemble, which is a wonderful introduction to participation in the worship service. They vest and process every week, singing with the Children’s Choir approximately once a month. Kindergarten Choristers rehearse Thursday afternoons from 3:45-4:15. The Children’s Choir is open to all boys and girls from grades 1-3, and the Youth Choir from grade 4 though 12. Rehearsals are Thursdays from 4:00-5:15 p.m.

Contact Music Associate Marla Perkins (marla@smvsf.org) or Director of Music Eric Choate (eric@smvsf.org) to inquire about your child’s participation in our chorister program,

Acolytes – Youth acolytes are key leaders in worship during each 9am Sunday service, inspiring parishioners of all ages as torch bearers, Eucharistic servers, and as Crucifers, as well as leading the procession of the altar party. If you are in 4th through 12th grade, you are eligible to join. Older acolytes may be trained as a thurifer, wielding incense in special services, or to get to serve as an associate acolyte coordinator, assisting in shepherding the team. We will work with the young people and parents to ensure flexibility of schedule.

To get involved or learn more, please contact Debbie Veatch at veatchdl@earthlink.net or Sandy Briggs sjbtbf@earthlink.net.


St. Mary Magdalene Scholarship

Please join us in congratulating the eleven young women from St. Mary’s who have been awarded the St. Mary Magdalene Scholarship for the 2019-2020 school year! These scholarships will be applied toward the colleges they are currently/will be attending.

Name                                                School                     
Ainsley Ball                                      Tufts University
Audrey Prescott                              UCLA
Fiona Bean                                       Davidson Honors College
@ University of Montana
Sophie Reynolds                             Cornell University
Corinne Sigmund                            Vassar College
Catherine Silvestri                          Cornell University
Eva Smith                                         UC Santa Barbara
Frances Sutton                                Pomona College
Ginny Woodworth                          Seattle University
Sadie Ray Smith                              Carleton College
Camilla Sigmund                             Georgetown University