Children and Youth Programs


We are proud of our decades of strong children and youth programming and invite you and your family to join in the fun! If you’re visiting with us for the first time, please ask an usher to direct you to the children’s programs

Inspiring the Next Generation of Episcopalians
St. Mary’s offers a range of programs to teach, enrich, and inspire our children, the lifeblood of our church. We offer Christian Education, centered around our Sunday School, and including Confirmation class, a Children’s Choir, a Youth Choir, an Acolytes group, a post-Confirmation Youth Group, and college scholarships for young women.

Children’s and Youth Choir resuming
Children’s and Youth Choirs will resume rehearsals (on Zoom) on Thursday, September 10th. We will be preparing special virtual musical offerings for several special feasts this fall, including St. Francis, All Saints, and Christmas. The Children’s and Youth Choir are open to all boys and girls from Kindergarten through 12th grade. Please be in touch with Marla Perkins ( to register for the upcoming year.

Virtual Family Service

Weekly Virtual Family Worship Service Sundays at 9:00 a.m.
St. Mary’s is delighted to introduce a new weekly virtual family worship service at 9:00 a.m. Here are the highlights of the worship service:
  • Zoom meeting format to allow active participation
  • Fun, interactive music offered by Marla Perkins, Mike Stafford, and others
  • Contemporary translation of scripture
  • Interactive children’s homilies led by clergy, Sunday school teachers, and our regular children’s homilists.
  • Interactive prayers of the people.
  • Approximately 30 minutes in length.
  • Informal “goldfish ½ hour” afterward, an optional time for families to check with each other.
The worship service will not be recorded or published on youtube, facebook, or our website. The Zoom link will be available via highlights, children’s highlights, or emailing the church office at It will not be published on our website or general communications.
If you have any questions, please reach out to Rev. Marguerite at or Nancy Clark at Download the Songbook.
On Sunday, November 1, we invite children to get especially creative for All Saints Day.  First, please wear your Halloween costume, and to honor  your favorite saint, please draw, paint or bring a picture of the saint to share during the Goldfish Half-Hour!  This will be a celebration to remember!!
From it’s very beginning as a local Sunday School, St. Mary’s has sought to honor God’s presence in the “little ones like these,” and it is a delight to continue to serve them and their families in unique ways in this unique time.

You can view Sunday School Lessons and Homilies by clicking links below:

Children’s Homily – Sunday, June 14, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Donna Davidson
Children’s Homily – Sunday, June 7, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Tatiana Hodapp
Children’s Homily – Sunday, May 31, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Nancy Clark and her cast of characters
Children’s Homily – Sunday, May 24, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Lisa Carey
Children’s Homily – Sunday, May 17, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Katherine Lehman
Children’s Homily – Sunday, May 10, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Jackie Schroeder
Children’s Homily – Sunday, May 3, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Donna Davidson
Children’s Homily – Sunday, April 26, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds
Children’s Homily – Sunday, April 19, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Nancy Svendsen
Children’s Homily – Sunday, April 12, 2020 Sunday School Lesson with Donna Davidson 
Children’s Homily – Sunday, April 5, 2020  
Children’s Homily – Sunday, March 28, 2020  

Nursery Care – Nursery Care is available for children up to three years old at the 9:00 and 11:00 a.m. school year services and 10:00 a.m. summer services. The Nursery is located on the first floor of Fowler Hall. Infants have a separate space in the nursery, away from the older toddlers. If the older toddlers are interested, basic arts and crafts projects with fun religious themes are available. For more information, contact our Nursery Care Coordinator, Jackie Schroeder, at

Children’s Homilists –  In this ministry, we take turns during the school year leading children in a very brief lesson and discussion during the 9:00 a.m. Sunday service, just after the Gospel is read. No prior experience needed; you just need to love and connect well with kids. We will arrange a training before you start, and you can take a turn a few times a year or more often if you like.
Contact: Meredith Peake –

Sunday School – Sunday School is offered during the school year at the 9:00 a.m. service to children ages three through sixth grade and the Youth Confirmation Class (grades seven and eight). The three to five year-olds leave after the Children’s Homily to attend pre-school on the first floor of Fowler Hall. After receiving communion, but before the sermon, the older children proceed to their Sunday School classes located in Pixley House and Fowler Hall. Classes run until 10:45 a.m. and parents are asked to pick their children up from their classrooms. For more information, contact our Director of Sunday School, Nancy Clark at (415) 387-7741 or

Confirmation – Confirmation, as defined in The Book of Common Prayer is “a mature public affirmation of faith and commitment to the responsibilities of Baptism.” At Confirmation, an individual receives the laying on of hands by the bishop, thereby affirming their own faith and visibly connecting to the broader Body of Christ. Youth in grades seven and eight are invited to participate in Confirmation Class during our regular Sunday School time, where they are prepared for the rite of Confirmation celebrated at Grace Cathedral each June. For more information contact Phil Woodworth:

Youth Group/Post-Confirmation Teens – Click here for more information or to get involved with the youth group.

Chorister Program
St. Mary’s is an affiliate of the Royal School of Church Music, which offers a first-rate formational curriculum with singing at its foundation. We teach vocal technique in the context of group singing with special emphasis on music from our Anglican heritage; we teach children to break down social barriers and build community; we teach manners, conduct, and self-awareness with respect to the group surrounding; we teach discipline, focus, and critical thinking; and we teach singing for the pure enjoyment of music. What we offer these young children is the foundation for a life-long relationship with the Church, and indeed with God. Our Children’s and Youth Choir sing weekly for the 9:00 a.m. Eucharist throughout the scholastic year. Our Kindergarten Choir is a training ensemble, which is a wonderful introduction to participation in the worship service. They vest and process every week, singing with the Children’s Choir approximately once a month. Kindergarten Choristers rehearse Thursday afternoons from 3:45-4:15. The Children’s Choir is open to all boys and girls from grades 1-3, and the Youth Choir from grade 4 though 12. Rehearsals are Thursdays from 4:00-5:15 p.m.

Contact Music Associate Marla Perkins ( or Director of Music Eric Choate ( to inquire about your child’s participation in our chorister program,

Acolytes – Youth acolytes are key leaders in worship during each 9am Sunday service, inspiring parishioners of all ages as torch bearers, Eucharistic servers, and as Crucifers, as well as leading the procession of the altar party. If you are in 4th through 12th grade, you are eligible to join. Older acolytes may be trained as a thurifer, wielding incense in special services, or to get to serve as an associate acolyte coordinator, assisting in shepherding the team. We will work with the young people and parents to ensure flexibility of schedule.

To get involved or learn more, please contact Debbie Veatch at or Sandy Briggs

St. Mary Magdalene Scholarship

Please join us in congratulating the twelve young women from St. Mary’s who have been awarded the St. Mary Magdalene Scholarship for the 2019-2020 school year! These scholarships will be applied toward the colleges they are currently/will be attending.

Name and School                                                                   
Isabella Albert  –  Agnes Scott
Ainsley Ball  –  Tufts University
Fiona Bean – University of Montana/Davidson Honors 
Elizabeth Hayashi – Macalester College 
Virginia Norris – Pitzer College
Camilla Sigmund – Georgetown
Catherine Silvestri – Cornell University
Eva Smith – University of California Santa Barbara
Stella Smith – San Francisco State University
Sadie Ray Smith – Carleton College
Frances Sutton – Pomona College
Ginny Woodworth – Seattle University